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Feast of the Holy Family

December 29, 2019

Matthew 2:13-23

If we were given the choice to choose our parents, what kind of parents would we like to have? Perhaps, some of us want to have rich parents. Some of us may desire to have beautiful or genius parents. Some of us may wish to be born in a royal and politically influential family. These are our usual dreams. Yet, surprisingly, these are not the options that God made when He chose His parents. In His beautiful wisdom, God selected Mary and Joseph of Nazareth.

Joseph was a descendant of acclaimed King David, but the Davidic Kingdom was the only thing of the past in the time of Joseph. He was also a carpenter and despite hardworking, this profession just gave enough to survive. Mary was an ordinary young woman from an unknown village called Nazareth. Joseph and Mary were simple if not poor people living within the time where most Israelites were suffering from the oppression of the Roman empire. In the eyes of the world, this couple was nothing.

However, our God is the God of surprises, and He has a hobby to upset “the established world’s order.” For God, the crucial criteria to be His parents are not wealth, popularity, or noble line. God has no need of these things. So, what is the basis of His choice?

The fundamental criterium is faith in God. Joseph and Mary possessed nothing of this world, but both are the man and woman of faith, or the man and woman of God. Joseph was called as the “righteous man,” meaning he was a man who knew the Torah by heart and obeyed them faithfully. Joseph loved God and His laws. Moreover, when Gabriel appeared to Joseph and revealed the plan of God, Joseph immediately got up and followed Angel’s instruction without any question asked. Mary did basically the same thing. When Gabriel told her about God’s plan that she would be the mother of God, Mary did not understand, but she did not simply give her nod, but she accepted God’s design as her own. Joseph and Mary knew well that the moment they participated in God’s way, they had to surrender their own plans, dreams, and hopes. Their lives were practically thrown into the unknown. Yet, their faith is bigger than their fear or pride, and they believed that God’s way is always the best way. These are the kind of parents whom God chose.

Like Joseph and Mary, I do believe that the first attitude that any parents have is faith in God. Every child is a gift, yet this gift will challenge and change the parents who receive them. As a child enters the life of their parents, husband and wife shall also enter the life of sacrifice. Sometimes, I am sudden by the decision of some Catholic couples who refuse to have children. We understand that it is difficult to raise children, but our refusal to accept a gift from God might point to our lack of faith, even to our selfishness, our obsessiveness to our plans, career, and ambitions.

God does not need a perfect couple to raise His Son, He rather chooses a man and woman of faith.

Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Pesta Keluarga Kudus

29 Desember 2019

Matius 2: 13-23

Jika kita diberi pilihan untuk memilih orang tua kita, orang tua seperti apa yang kita inginkan? Mungkin, sebagian dari kita ingin memiliki orang tua yang kaya. Beberapa dari kita mungkin berhasrat untuk memiliki orang tua yang berupa cantik, tampan atau berotak jenius. Beberapa dari kita mungkin ingin dilahirkan dalam keluarga kerajaan dan berpengaruh secara politis. Ini adalah impian-impian kita yang sangat wajar. Namun, yang mengejutkan, ini bukanlah pilihan yang Allah buat ketika Dia memilih orang tua-Nya. Dalam kebijaksanaan-Nya yang indah, Allah memilih Maria dan Yusuf dari Nazaret.

Yusuf adalah keturunan Raja Daud yang terkenal, tetapi Kerajaan Daud sudah tidak ada di zaman Yusuf. Dia juga seorang tukang kayu dan meskipun bekerja keras, profesi ini hanya cukup untuk bertahan hidup. Maria adalah seorang wanita muda biasa dari desa yang tidak dikenal bernama Nazareth. Yusuf dan Maria adalah orang sederhana, bahkan orang miskin yang hidup di masa ketika sebagian besar orang Israel menderita karena penindasan kekaisaran Romawi. Di mata dunia, pasangan ini bukan apa-apa.

Namun, Tuhan kita adalah Tuhan memberi kejutan, dan Dia memiliki hobi untuk mengacaukan “tatanan dunia yang mapan.” Bagi Tuhan, kriteria penting untuk menjadi orang tua-Nya bukanlah kekayaan, popularitas, atau darah. Tuhan tidak membutuhkan hal-hal ini. Jadi, apa dasar dari pilihan-Nya?

Kriteria mendasar adalah iman kepada Tuhan. Yusuf dan Maria tidak memiliki apa pun di dunia ini, tetapi keduanya adalah pria dan wanita beriman, atau pria dan wanita Allah. Yusuf disebut sebagai “orang yang tulus hati,” yang berarti dia adalah orang yang mengenal Hukum Taurat dan menaati mereka dengan setia. Yusuf mencintai Tuhan dan hukum-hukum-Nya. Terlebih lagi, ketika Gabriel menampakkan diri kepada Yusuf dan mengungkapkan rencana Tuhan, Yusuf segera bangkit dan mengikuti instruksi Malaikat tanpa ada pertanyaan. Maria pada dasarnya melakukan hal yang sama. Ketika Gabriel memberi tahu dia tentang rencana Tuhan bahwa dia akan menjadi ibu Tuhan, Maria tidak mengerti, tetapi dia tidak hanya memberikan persetujuannya, tetapi dia menerima rancangan Tuhan sebagai miliknya sendiri. Yusuf dan Maria tahu betul bahwa saat mereka mengambil bagian dalam jalan Tuhan, mereka harus menyerahkan rencana, impian, dan harapan mereka sendiri. Namun, iman mereka lebih besar daripada ketakutan atau kesombongan mereka, dan mereka percaya bahwa jalan Tuhan selalu merupakan jalan terbaik, meski mereka tidak mengerti. Ini adalah tipe orang tua yang Tuhan pilih.

Seperti Yusuf dan Maria, saya percaya bahwa sikap pertama yang harus dimiliki setiap orang tua adalah iman kepada Tuhan. Setiap anak adalah karunia, namun karunia ini akan mengubah orang tua yang menerimanya. Ketika seorang anak memasuki kehidupan orang tua mereka, suami dan istri juga akan memasuki kehidupan pengorbanan. Terkadang, saya sedih mendengar keputusan beberapa pasangan Katolik yang menolak untuk memiliki anak. Kita memahami bahwa tentunya sulit untuk membesarkan anak-anak, tetapi penolakan kita untuk menerima karunia dari Tuhan mungkin menunjukkan kurangnya iman kita, bahkan keegoisan kita, obsesi kita terhadap rencana, karier, dan ambisi kita.

Tuhan tidak membutuhkan pasangan yang sempurna untuk membesarkan Putranya, Ia lebih memilih seorang pria dan wanita yang memiliki iman.

Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

Fourth Sunday of Advent [A] – December 21, 2019 – Matthew 1:18-24

A few days ago, a nativity scene went viral. The image is called “Let Mom Rest”. The prominent character of this scene is that Joseph is taking care of the baby Jesus while Mary is resting. This image presents to us untouched yet powerful aspect of Jesus’ birth and thus, Christmas. Often, we focus our attention on Jesus with Mary, His mother. We honor Mary because of her willingness to carry Jesus on her womb despite so many dangers and difficulties and to remain a faithful disciple of Jesus till the end. However, the image brings us to another important character that we often overlook, St. Joseph, as the man of faith.

If God has chosen and prepared the most fitting woman in human history to become the mother of His Son, the same logic governs also the choice of the foster father of Jesus. The most suitable man is chosen for this massive yet wonderful task.

Unfortunately, we do not know much about Joseph. Matthew only gave us very little information, but from this little knowledge, we can extract some important truths. Firstly, Joseph is from the house of David. This means that any child that he begets or accepts legally shall be part of the house of David as well. Joseph is the link that connects between Jesus and David, and thus, Jesus’ birth shall fulfill the prophecy that the Messiah shall come from the line of David.

Secondly, he is a carpenter, and being a carpenter is not a promising job to survive first-century Palestine. Yet, Joseph well knows that hard-work, precision, and perfection are parts of his trade. A tough life is nothing but a daily routine for Joseph. God knows to raise His Son will require a tremendous amount of sacrifice, and Joseph, the carpenter, is up to the challenge.

To accept and to raise a child who is not his own, is certainly a tough call, but Joseph obeyed the will of God that has been expressed in his dream, “Do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife.” Yet, more than that, Joseph made sure that this mission would be brought to completion. From the image of “Let Mom Rest”, it seems that Mary just gave birth to Jesus and giving birth is certainly a draining and tough process. Mary was exhausted. Joseph takes over the responsibility to care for the baby Jesus, while Mary received her most-needed rest. This is just one small concrete example of who Joseph exercised the God-given mission to raise the Child of God. Certainly, his duty is not only manifested in that event. He protected Mary and her Child from dangers, especially from the threat from Herod the Great who would kill Jesus. For the rest of his life, Joseph would work hard to provide, educate and raise Jesus as a man who is ready to give His life for all.

Like Mary, Joseph did not understand also why he had to be a father who someone else’s child, why he had to put his life and future on the line for a son who is not his own? Yet, like Mary, Joseph had faith and accepted the will of God in his life. Not only simply accepting God’s will, but he also made sure that he gave his best and made God’s plan come to fulfillment.

We often do not understand why God’s plan for us. We do know where God will bring us. Yet, like Mary and Joseph, we are called to be the men and women of faith, to receive God’s plan as our own and bring His will into fruitful completion.

 Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP

2^nd Sunday of Advent [A]

December 8, 2019

Matthew 3:1-12

John the Baptist is a prominent figure in four Gospels, and he powerfully appears before Jesus begins His public ministry. But, who is this John the Baptist? His name is simply John, and the Church calls him the Baptist to distinguish him from other John in the Bible like John the son of Zebedee, one of Jesus’ disciples. John the Baptist is the miracle son of Zacharia and Elizabeth in their old days. And since Elizabeth and Mary, the mother of Jesus, are relatives, John and Jesus are closely related to each other.

Certainly, there is something strange about this John. He is eating locust and honey. Surely, it is an exotic food, but we need to remember he is living in the desert, and this kind of food is common. He is wearing clothing made of camel’s hair and a leather belt around his waist. It is just a fashion statement or he has nothing to wear. John’s clothing reminds us of the things Prophet Elijah wore in his time [see 1 Kings 1:8]. John is presenting himself as a prophet, and not any prophet, he is the new Elijah. The appearance of Elijah is an important sign of the imminent coming of the Messiah [Mal 4:5].

One thing for sure about John is that he becomes very popular, and people from all over the country come to him, to listen to his preaching and to be baptized as a sign of repentance. Yet, despite the great number of followers, he remains true to his mission. He is preaching on the coming of someone who is much greater than him, even he declares that “is unworthy to carry His sandals.” He is God’s instrument in fulfilling the prophesy, and he has a specific role to play.

Now, we know a little background about John the Baptist, what will be next for us? Certainly, we are not called to follow him in wearing clothing made of camel’s hair or to eat locust everyday, but we are to prepare the way for the coming of the Savior. How? Some of us are called literally to baptize people like myself. Some are commissioned to preach and educate people. Yet, all of us are to live a life of repentance. The repentance has to be alive and penetrating all aspects of life. The word used by John in Greek is “metanoiete” and it does not simply mean “repent!” but more precisely, “keep repenting!”

The first stage of repentance is certainly turning away from sinful life, but it is more than that. Repentance is not about one-done-deal action, but a life-long process. The word “Metanoia” is coming from two words, “meta” meaning “changing” and “nous” meaning “mind”; Thus, “metanoia” means changing of mind, changing of the way we see life and the way we live. Our mind is no longer earth-bond, but fixed into God. The transformation is not from sinful life to a good life, but a life that is even closer to God. It implies changing of priority. Do we make God as our priority? It entails holiness. Do we do things that are pleasing to God? This presupposes love of God. Do we love God more than other things, or do we love other things more than Him?

Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno, OP