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Author: Romo Valentinus Bayuhadi Ruseno OP

One Shepherd

One Shepherd

 
 
24th Sunday in Ordinary Time
September 11, 2016
Luke 15:1-10
 
“Rejoice with me because I have found my lost sheep (Luk 15:6).”
 
The parable of the lost sheep subtly speaks of who we are fundamentally to Jesus. We are all His sheep and He is our shepherd. Whether we faithfully remain inside the sheepfold or go astray, we are still His sheep.
From this truth, we may ask ourselves. Why is it that some of us are going astray? Why are some of us no longer going to the Church or not active in the parish? Why are some abandoning the Church? Why do some turn to be our enemies and haters? We might be easily tempted to say that that is their fault. But, we are sheep of the same flock, sharers of the same pasture and have the same Shepherd. In one way or another, we might be responsible for our brothers and sisters who stray.
It is easy to pass the blame on others, but do we ever bother to ask why they fail? We tend to see them as problems to be solved, objects to dissect into logical parts. We no longer see them as our brothers and sisters, our co-sheep in Jesus’ sheepfold. Our brothers are no longer going to Church perhaps because we no longer care to help them. Our sisters are leaving the Church perhaps because we are living like hypocrites.
 The war on drugs in the Philippines has caused more than two thousand lives in just two months. As one national news outlet remarks ‘the bodies continues pilling up’. Indeed, many of them are small-time drug-pushers and addicts, and if we look at them as mere problems and pests to the society, death seems the fastest and easy answer. But, if we have headache, do we cut the head? Do we ever wonder why they fall victims of that deadly narcotics? A Lion share of those who got killed were actually poor people. Do we ever lift a finger to alleviate their poverty? Our ignorance and negligence may have indirectly led them into poverty and misery.
Fr. Gerard Timoner III, OP, our provincial, used to teach an idea of brothers shepherding brothers in the seminary. This means that the responsibility of taking care of our brothers in formation does not only rest only on the formators, but also on every brother. We need to become shepherds to one another, especially when the shepherds seem to stray away. Recently, he met us and shared what he gained from the Dominican General Chapter in Bologna last August. He emphasized that to promote vocation is not only about recruiting new members, but also nurturing and safeguarding the vocation of our own brothers in the Order.
To become a sheep of Christ means that we are also part of a bigger sheepfold. As Jesus takes care of each one of us, so we need to take care of one another. As the Good Shepherd reaches out to the lost sheep, we shall stretch ourselves to meet those who are lost in their journey. Surely, it is difficult, but they are still our brothers and sisters, fellow-sheep of Christ.
Connect

Connect

 
 
22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time
August 28, 2016
Luke 14:1, 7-14
 
“Rather, when you hold a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind (Luk 14:13)”
 
In the time of Jesus, Jews had their own special way of dining. Instead of sitting or standing the Jews would recline on a low table where food and wine are served. Reclining was the sign of free man in Greco-Roman culture. The slaves stood and served the guests. Aside reclining posture, their place in the dining table indicated their importance to the host. The closer they were to the host, the more significant they were to the host. Thus, persons sitting beside the host were expected to be the most important guests. 
Jesus noticed that some guests wanted to occupy the place of importance in the dining table. Certainly, situating oneself in the place of honor, gave a sense of prestige, but more significantly, the closer they were to the host, the better connection they had with the host who was a leading and influential Pharisee in town.
From ancient times to present days, to connect oneself to the figure of authority and power will give us a better position to improve our lives or advance our cause. With good connection, an unemployed can get a good job. With connection, an employee can have his desired promotion. With connection, a student can enjoy the trust of his teachers. John Maxwell, an inspirational teacher, told us how he was able to win the heart of his wife Margaret, despite many other handsome suitors. He made a good connection with her mother! I guess one of the reasons why I have more preaching opportunities is that I am connected with good friends who also are active in the Church.
Jesus did not intend to erase this kind of connection. In fact, He himself is our connection to the Father (cf. 1 Tim 2:5). In today’s Gospel, what he desire was to re-orient our understanding of our connection. We must not use our connection just to advance our individual and selfish plans, but rather we employ it for the empowerment of others. Jesus invited the hosts to invite the poor in their meals. This was not only about feeding the hungry, but the rich hosts are to make connection with the poor. With connection, the possibility of enabling the less fortunate is opened.
I was fortunate to meet a Columban lay missionary from Korea. Leaving behind her promising career in the US, Ms. Anna volunteers to do ministry in the Philippines. She shared to me what she is doing to help the poor. She gathered the poor mothers living near her place and created a livelihood project. She taught them how to make a candle and sell them at the nearby parishes. Most of the mothers were high school dropouts and at the mercy of their husbands. But, with this project, some are able to continue their study, support their family and more importantly, they now have financial independence and no longer dependent on their husbands. Ms. Anna made connection with these mothers and this connection empowers them.
Jesus calls us to be a good host. This means we who are endowed with blessings will connect with those who are not so fortunate in their lives. Let our connection empower others more than simply enriching ourselves.
 
Fire of Jesus

Fire of Jesus

 
20th Sunday in Ordinary Time
August 14, 2016
Luke 12:49-53
“I have come to set the earth on fire, and how I wish it were already blazing! (Luk 12:49)”
In the midst of all super-advanced digital gadgets and nano technologies, making fire seems rather archaic and a bit useless. Why will we set a fire and cause pollution, if we have energy-saving LED lamp in our house? However, making fire is the earliest and one of the most significant human invention. Fire revolutionized the lives of our ancestors and gave us substantial advantages over other creatures. Fire brings warm and comfort in chilling and unforgiving weathers. Fire protects us from bigger and fiercer predators. Fire provides light that shed off the darkness. Fire also is needed to forge other inventions and technologies, like various tools and weapons.
Yet, fire also may cause us serious headaches. Almost every year, fire sets ablaze parts of Borneo rain forest and emits global-scale smoke. Fire also is a serious problem in densely populated cities like Manila. A firefighter once conducted a seminar in our seminary. He said that it just takes less than one minute for fire to burn an entire body of a little kid. Thus, fire has become the symbol of both powerful force of nature and human ingenuity. It may bring heavy destructions as fire burns and consumes almost everything. Yet, it also gives creativity, hope and future to humanity.
When Jesus said he brought fire to the world, Luke used the Greek word ‘phur’, meaning ‘wild fire’. Now, we may understand that Jesus came to the world to bring not a warming and delightful fire, but massive transformative energy and power. This fire can consume our past and wicked ways. Yet, more importantly, this fire energizes and empowers us to be creative in our preaching and in Christian life. On the day of Pentecost, the Holy Spirit came into the form of tongues of fire. This same fire emboldened the fearful disciples in the Upper room and moved them to preach the Good News with freshness. They made a creative breakthrough as they began to speak in the different languages of their hearers.
Saints are people who are blazed by Christ’ fire. Their lives exemplify the ever-fresh and transformative Spirit. When St. Dominic de Guzman saw the need to preach the Gospel to bring back the Albigensian heretics in Southern France, he established the first preaching religious Order in the Church. When the first Spanish Missionaries came to the Philippine Islands, one of their main preoccupations was how to understand the local languages and cultures, so that their preaching may be easily understood by the native Filipinos. As early as the 16th century, the Dominican friars had produced grammar books and dictionaries of Philippine languages like Tagalog, Bisaya, and Ivatan.
It is His desire to set the world in fire, but has the fire of Christ touched our lives? Have the Eucharist and Sacrament of reconciliation renewed us? Do we feel that energy to engage in the proclamation of the Good News, or we are just fine with Sunday masses? Do we have the perseverance amidst trials of life? Do we allow the Spirit to animate our lives? 
Biar Anak-Anak Datang Kepada-Ku

Biar Anak-Anak Datang Kepada-Ku

 
Sabtu pada Pekan Biasa ke-19
13 Agustus 2016
Matius 19:13-15
Meletakan tangan di atas kepala seseorang merupakan tradisi yang banyak ditemukan di berbagai budaya. Di Filipina, ada tradisi ‘Mano Po’ dimana mereka yang lebih muda akan menggengam tangan mereka yang lebih tua atau yang dihormati, dan kemuadian meletakkan tangan orang tua ini di dahi mereka. Di Indonesia, saya juga diajari untuk menciup tangan orang tua sebelum berangkat sekolah. Di Gereja Katolik sendiri, tradisi ini adalah sangat penting. Di dalam sakramen imamat, ritual yang paling penting adalah saat uskup meletakan tangannya di atas kepala sang calon imam. Setelah ritual penumpangan tangan ini, jati diri sang calon imam berubah secara radikal. Dia bukan lagi seorang awam, tetapi telah menjadi imam Yesus Kristus.
Walaupun hadir dalam konteks dan budaya yang berbeda, penumpangan tangan secara umum merupakan simbol dari pemberian berkat. Dalam Injil hari inipun kita membaca bahwa ada orang yang membawa anak-anak kepada Yesus agar Ia dapat meletakan tangan-Nya atas mereka dan berdoa. Tentunya, ini orang ini ingin anak-anak dapat menerima berkat dari Yesus sendiri.
Namun, para murid Yesus justru marah dan menghalang-halangi orang ini dan juga para anak kecil. Kita tidak begitu tahu kenapa para murid justru menghalangi. Mungkin mereka ingin Yesus beristirahat setelah lelah menjalani berbagai pelayanan. Mungkin mereka ingin Yesus menjadi milik mereka saja. Atau mungkin mereka tidak tahu bagaimana berurusan dengan anak-anak kecil. Apapun alasannya Yesus tidak setuju dengan perbuatan mereka. Ia pun mengizinkan orang itu membawa anak-anak kecil kepada-Nya dan Ia memberkati mereka.
Merenungkan Injil hari ini, kita bisa bertanya: apakah kita seperti para murid yang justru mempersulit anak-anak kecil yang ingin mendapat berkat dari Yesus, atau kita seperti orang yang mencoba membawa para anak agar Yesus bisa meletakan tangan-Nya atas mereka? Apakah kita dan prilaku kita membawa orang lain lebih dekat dengan Tuhan atau malah menjauhi Tuhan? Apakah kita mendidik anak-anak kita untuk mencintai Tuhan dan Gereja-Nya, atau kita sibuk dengan urusan pribadi kita sendiri? Apakah kita menjadi sarana berkat Tuhan bagi mereka yang membutuhkan atau justru menjadi sebuah hambatan?
Dua Jalan Kehidupan, Satu Tujuan

Dua Jalan Kehidupan, Satu Tujuan

 
Jumat dalam Pekan Biasa ke-19
12 Agustus 2016
Matius 19:3-12
Dalam Injil hari ini, Tuhan Yesus memperlihatkan dua jalan kehidupan yang Allah kehendaki bagi kita. Yang pertama adalah kita dipanggil untuk hidup dalam pernikahan atau bekeluarga, dan yang kedua adalah untuk hidup selibat (atau tidak menikah). Walaupun kedua jalan kehidupan ini sangat berbeda, dengan keunikannya masing-masing, keduanya memiliki fondasi yang sebenarnya sama, yakni komitmen. Tidak hanya sekedar komitmen, tetapi komitmen untuk mengasihi dan memberi hidup.
Tentunya, kedua jalan kehidupan ini tidaklah mudah. Di manapun kita panggil, selalu ada banyak tantangan dan kesulitan. Hidup pernikahan sendiri penuh dengan lika-liku. Suami-istri menghadapi berbagai permasalahan seperti keuangan, ketidakdewasaan emosional, komunikasi yang tidak lancar, kesulitan dalam membesarkan anak-anak, sampai ketidaksetiaan dan kekerasan di rumah tangga. Hidup selibat juga tentunya memiliki permasalahannya sendiri. Tidak sedikit sekarang orang yang tidak lagi memikirkan hidup bekeluarga karena sibuk dengan karier, fokus dengan pekerjaan, atau memang melihat hidup berkeluarga sebagai sesuatu yang merepotkan. Kondisi seperti ini bukanlah selibat yang sejati karena fondasinya bukanlah komitmen untuk mengasihi, tetapi diri sendiri. Mereka yang hidup selibat, entah itu sebagai imam, bruder, suster, rahib atau awam, dipanggil untuk menjadi sarana kasih yang terbuka dan tanpa keterikatan.
Kedua bentuk kehidupan tidaklah mudah karena mengasihi itu pada dasarnya sulit. Terkadang kita dicobai untuk mencari solusi mudah dan instan menghadapi berbagai tantangan di kedua jalan hidup ini. Bagi mereka yang telah menikah, perceraian sepertinya menjadi jalan keluar cepat. Bagi mereka yang selibat, godaan untuk tidak setia pada jalan hidup yang dipilih juga sangat kuat.
Namun, Tuhan Yesus mengingatkan bahwa kedua jalan hidup ini bukanlah karya kita manusia, tetapi karya dan kehendak Allah sendiri. Yang menyatukan pria dan wanita dalam hidup berkeluarga adalah Allah sendiri. “Demikianlah mereka bukan lagi dua, melainkan satu. Karena itu, apa yang telah dipersatukan Allah, tidak boleh diceraikan manusia (Mat 19:6).” Yang dipanggil untuk selibat, mereka menjalaninya demi Kerajaan Surga (lih. Mat 19:12). Oleh karena itu, kita harus selalu kembali kepada Dia yang memanggil dan mengutus kita. Hidup doa di dalam keluarga dan mereka yang selibat menjadi pokok. Mengikuti Ekaristi kudus secara rutin dan penuh devosi adalah fondasi. Keikutsertaan dalam komunitas Gereja tentunya menjadi sarana rahmat. Allah yang telah memulai karya baik di antara kita akan membawa semua dalam kesempurnaan di dalam Yesus Kristus (lih. Fil 1:6).
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